I had a one night stand in Colombia and it was Empowering AF


Random sex has never been that appealing to me. I’ve had boyfriends for most of my adult life, soooo they’ve historically been the ones I’ve been boning. Every once in a while I’ll do the whole “get drunk and go home with someone” thing, but it’s usually with someone I know and it is never, ever that good. Most of the time, these jaunts (and I swear — they’re pretty rare) end up with me waking up the next morning and wondering, “why did I do that.”

Welp, that all changed when I was in Colombia, when I had a one night stand that actually lived up to the hype.

While in Medellin, I was at the bar with a few of my friends, and we were doing that awkward “dancing in a circle” thing that is usually the default among Americans at Latin American bars playing Latin music. I was drunk on far too much tequila when a tall, hot *man* put his hand around my waist.

“Do you know how to salsa?” he asked.

He was so damn cute, I could hardly contain my giggles as I told him that absolutely no I did...